So you are ready for a lifestyle change. You are tide of always creating a negative atmosphere or vibe wherever you go. You want to develop a better conscience. In fact, you have always wanted to change your character and attitude but didn’t know exactly how to do it. Often you have tried changing but have giving up over and over when things seemed to have stayed the same.
But becoming a more conscience person takes time. You have to rid yourself of all erroneous thoughts and deeds. But a life changed from bad to good will experience peace and joy. In order to start being a more conscience person, you must be willing to go through a number changes in order to achieve victory. You must make the following adjustments.
It Takes Time
Change takes patience. In order to become the person you desire to be (both in character and attitude) you must understand that the change will not happen overnight. It took
years to develop these negative qualities. Therefore it will take time to eliminate them.
Be watchful over every area of your life. Be aware of your conversations, personal connections and places you visit. All these aspects of your life must be cleaned up and polished. For example, if you are always criticizing about someone without their knowledge, you must rethink your desire to be a more conscience person. I f you hang around people who are negative and always getting into trouble, you must release them for your own good. If you go to places that are inappropriate to good morality, then you must cut yourself off from revisiting them.
Changing negative character and attitude takes this kind of scrutiny of your daily habits and routines.
Don’t Rush Your Goals
Establish goals for each area of your life and work on them one at a time. If you attempt to handle too many goals at one, you will become frustrated and give up. Attacking goals one at a time and achieving them will help build tons of confidence. Each goal competed strengthens your character like nothing else. You become more self-discipline. You no longer act upon impulse. You trade in a reactive mind for a more thoughtful, analytic mind.
Learn to Appreciate Mistakes
Know that you will make mistakes. In fact change brings with it a series of failures before perfect transformation occurs. Babies who attempt to walk must fall several times before they can actually balance themselves enough stay upright for a length of time. Mistakes are a prerequisite for mastery. You will slip up in character or attitude many times before you completely eliminate the negative habits in your life.
Stay Positive When Discouraged
Stay positive in the face of setbacks or discouragement. There will be times when everything within you will tell you to give up. Your old nature doesn’t want to change. It knows that change will put an end to its rule and reign. However, you must not go by what you feel. You must move forward knowing that in movement there is always hope.
Your Life: An Inspiration
Once you have achieved a measure of good character and attitude, you will experience increasing levels of joy and peace. You will wonder how you allowed yourself to be so selfish and disrespectful of others. However, you must not regret anything, because others will always be looking at you. When they see the joy of your transformation, your life will become an inspiration to them.